8. Jobs, for example, was born to an unmarried couple who chose to give him up for adoption. The good news? The newborn child came to the home of a working class couple, Paul and Clara Jobs of San Francisco, who lavished great love and care on him.

13. The college-educated among these young adults are better off. But nearly 17 percent are either unemployed or not seeking work, a record level (although some are in graduate school) . The unemployment rate for college-educated young adults, 5. 5 percent, is nearly double what it was on the eve of the Great Recession, in 2007, and the highest level —by almost two percentage points —since the bureau started to keep records in 1994 for those with at least four years of college.

12. For young adults, the prospects in the workplace, even for the college-educated, have rarely been so bleak. Apart from the 14 percent who are unemployed and seeking work, as Scott Nicholson is, 23 percent are not even seeking a job, according to data from the Bureau of Labor Statistics. The total, 37 percent, is the highest in more than three decades and a rate reminiscent of the 1930s.

11. "I Don't think I fully understood the severity of the situation I had graduated into," he said, speaking in effect for an age group —the so-called millennials, 18 to 29 - whose unemployment rate of nearly 14 percent approaches the levels of that group in the Great Depression. And then he veered into the optimism that, polls show, is persistently, perhaps perversely, characteristic of millennials today. " I am absolutely certain that my job hunt will eventually pay off, " he said.

10. The grandfather's injunction startled the grandson. But as the weeks pass, Scott Nicholson, handsome as a Marine officer in a recruiting poster, has gradually realized that his career will not roll out in the Greater Boston area - or anywhere in America —with the easy inevitability that his father and grandfather recall, and that Scott thought would be his lot, too, when he fmished college in 2008.

9. " I view what is happening to Scott with dismay," said the grandfather, who has concluded, in part from reading The Economist, that Europe has surpassed America in offering opportunity for an ambitious young man. "We hate to think that Scott will have to leave , " the grandfather said," but he will. "

8. Complicating the generational divide, Scott's grandfather, William S. Nicholson, a World War II veteran and a retired stock broker, has watched what he described as America's once mighty economic engine losing its pre-eminence in a global economy. The grandfather has encouraged his unemployed grandson to go abroad - to " Go West, " so to speak.

7. "You maneuvered and you did not worry what the maneuvering would lead to , " the father said. "You knew it would lead to something good. "

6. He was braced for the conversation with his father in particular. While Scott Nicholson viewed the Hanover job as likely to stunt his career , David Nicholson, 57, accustomed to better times and easier mobility, viewed it as an opportunity. Once in the door, the father has insisted to his son, opportunities will present themselves - as they did in the father's rise over 35 years to general manager of a manufacturing company.

5. "The conversation I'm going to have with my parents now that I've turned down this job is more of a concern to me than turning down the job," he said.

4. Rather than waste early years in dead-end work, he reasoned, he would hold out for a corporate position that would draw on his college training and put him, as he sees it, on the bottom rungs of a career ladder.