19. I believe my father would almost have qualified for Aristotle's description of the ideal man—the man most worthy of being happy.“The ideal man, ”said Aristotle, “takes joy in doing favors for others;but he feels ashamed to have others do favors for him. For it is a mark of superiority to confer a kindness; but it is a mark of inferiority to receive it.”

32. The Nicholsons, whose combined annual income is worth of $ 175, 000 , have lavished attention on their three sons. Currently that attention is directed mainly at sustaining the self-confidence of their middle son.

31. That millennials as a group are optimistic is partly because many are, as Mr. Kohut put it, the children of doting baby boomers —among .them David Nicholson and his wife, Susan, 56 , an executive at a company that owns movie theaters.

30. "As frustrated as I get now, and I never intended to live at home, I'm in a good situation in a lot of ways, " Scott said. "I have very little overhead and no debt , and it is because I have no debt that I have any sort of flexibility to look for work. Otherwise, I would have to have a job, some kind of full-time job. "

29. The jobs are catch as catch can. He and a friend recently put up a white wooden fence for a neighbor, em bedding the posts in cement, a day's work that brought Scott $ 125. He mows lawns and gardens for half a dozen clients in Grafton, some of them family friends. And he is an active volunteer firefighter.

28. Like most of his classmates, Scott tries to get by on a shoestring and manages to earn enough in odd jobs to pay some expenses.

27. "Going it alone," "earning enough to be self-supporting" - these are awkward concepts for Scott Nicholson and his friends. Of the 20 college classmates with whom he keeps up, 12 are working, but only half are in jobs they "really like . " Three are entering law school this fall after frustrating experiences in the work force, "and five are looking for work just as I am, " he said.

26. In 2008, the first year of the recession, the percentage of the population living in households in which at least two generations were present rose nearly a percentage point, to 106 percent, according to the Pew Research Center. The high point , 24 . 7 percent, came in 1940, as the Depression ended, and the low point, 12 percent, in 1980. Striving for Independence

25. Many hard-pressed millennials are falling back on their parents, as Scott Nicholson has. While he has no college debt (his grandparents paid all his tuition and board) many others do, and that helps force them back home.

24. In a recent study, she found that those who graduated from college during the severe early'80s recession earned up to 30 percent less in their first three years than new graduates who landed their first jobs in a strong economy. Even 15 years later, their annual pay was 8 to 10 percent less.

23. "They are definitely more risk-averse," said Lisa B. Kahn, an economist at the Yale School of Management," and more likely to fall behind. "